Friday, February 25, 2011

6 days

I guess it started a little longer ago, but for the sake of this story we'll go with 6 days.

In keeping with the thought process where I'm just going to go ahead and call people out on their crap when they bring it to me, I managed to piss off Girl A last week. She had it coming, I'd bitten my tongue for long enough. Plus, I'd had just enough alcohol to turn off the filter. So me being me, I said everything I'd held back for the last 6 months or so. It felt awesome.

Some of the information coming from Girl A in the middle of the text war was information that I'd never shared with her. But, they sound eerily familiar to conversations I'd had with Girl B. So I text Girl B to get some info. Girl A and Girl B work together but aren't really friends. Or so I was told, I don't believe that now. So when I call Girl B out, she tells me that she's shared no information and that Girl A must have taken her phone and looked through it. Right, I'm apparently stupid enough to believe that.

The argument with Girl B went on over the course of a couple of days. Near the end of that text war I get hit with Girl C. Seems her current squeeze dislikes my choice of words in texts. Turns out, with women who are in a relationship at least, they can't be called beautiful by someone else. You all know me. I use beautiful, gorgeous and kiddo with pretty much everyone. Well, not the guys at least. In my defense, I've been using the same language from the very beginning of me being single, so that's 5 years now. Never had a problem before. What bothers me about it is that it's not meant as anything more than me being me. And Girl C knows that. But in an effort to avoid an argument I get spoken to. With no chance to argue for myself or defend my behavior. And both of these discussions are going on while I'm trying to get ready to go spend time with Girl D. Kinda makes for a frustrating evening.

And now that it's all out and I'm done venting I'm going to get out there and enjoy my weekend.

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