"But what is the good of friendship if one cannot say exactly what one means? Anybody can say charming things and try to please and to flatter, but a true friend always says unpleasant things, and does not mind giving pain. Indeed, if he is a really true friend he prefers it, for he knows that then he is doing good.”

And that's why I really do believe that if you're my friend, you're going to hear me say things you don't want to hear. Not because I don't care about you, but because I do in fact care. I'll support almost every decision without a second thought as long as you present it as though you've given it some thought. I try pretty hard not to judge anyone I call my friend. I know I do things worthy of judgement pretty damn often. But then again, I've never claimed to be anything close to perfection. I'm just a fairly normal dude. I make mistakes pretty consitently, and I'll admit when I'm wrong. I try to not be an ass when I tell you stuff you don't want to hear. But, if you push me don't think I won't push right back. I'm not that pushover you used to know.